Gottman Method & Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples
The Gottman Method and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) are two of the most widely researched approaches to couples therapy. The Gottman Method builds friendship, manages conflict and strengthens shared meaning; EFT helps partners understand and change the emotional cycle that keeps them stuck. The Meeting Matters uses both with couples in Islamabad, across Pakistan and online worldwide.
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The Gottman Method
Developed from decades of research on how couples interact, the Gottman Method focuses on practical skills: building fondness and admiration, turning towards each other in everyday moments, softening how difficult conversations begin, managing conflict without contempt or defensiveness, and creating shared goals and meaning.
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
EFT looks beneath the arguments to the emotions and needs driving them — usually a cycle in which one partner pursues and the other withdraws. By helping both partners voice their vulnerable feelings and respond to each other differently, it builds a more secure emotional bond.
Which One Is Right for You?
You do not have to choose. Your therapist draws on each depending on what your relationship needs — Gottman-style skills for communication and conflict, EFT for deeper emotional distance and trust. The first sessions are used to understand your pattern and agree on a plan.
What Sessions Look Like
Most work is in joint sessions, with the occasional individual check-in where useful. Expect practical exercises you can use the same week alongside the deeper work. Some couples see meaningful change in six to eight focused sessions; others prefer ongoing support.
In Person or Online
Both approaches work well over secure video. Couples in Lahore, Karachi and across Pakistan, as well as Pakistani couples in the UK, Canada, the US and the Gulf, attend online; local couples can meet at our F-11/1 Islamabad clinic.
Meet Therapists Who Can Help
Muhammad Naushad Anjum
Founder & Lead Psychologist — Couples, Marriage & Relationship Counselling
Tasmia Asghar
Clinical Psychologist, CBT, DBT & NLP Therapist
Ayesha Tariq
Clinical Psychologist — Relationship, Couples & Marriage Counselor
What Our Clients Say
“I had a really great experience at Meeting Matters Clinic in F-11. The therapists here are highly professional aur unka ravaiya bohat supportive hai. It's not easy to find a safe space for mental health, but yahan ka mahol bohat pur-sakoon…”
Muhammad Subhan Azeem · Google Review
“I am truly grateful to Ms. Tasmiya Asghar and the team at Meeting Matters. I reached out during one of the most difficult periods of my life while dealing with grief and trying to be the best parent I could be for my children. Ms. Tasmiya's…”
Hashir Kiani · Google Review
“I was experiencing gender dysphoria, and my father took me to see Dr. Ayesha Tariq for therapy. So far, I have completed 15 sessions with her. During this time, she has helped me understand and process my emotions in a healthier way and has…”
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15+ Years of Experience You Can Trust
The Meeting Matters has been providing professional counseling, therapy and training since 2010 — over fifteen years of clinical experience supporting individuals, couples and families across Pakistan and around the world. Our psychologists are trained in evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, EMDR and psychodynamic therapy, delivered through confidential online counseling and online therapy as well as in-person sessions at our Islamabad clinic.
Explore Our Full Range of Services
Alongside specialist support for this concern, you have access to our full range of services — the same experienced team, available online or in person:
Individual Therapy
One-to-one online counseling and therapy for anxiety, depression, stress and personal growth.
Couples Counseling
Online relationship counseling for communication, conflict and rebuilding trust.
Marriage Counseling
Online marriage counseling for couples working through distress or disconnection.
Premarital Counseling
Guided conversations before marriage, available online.
Family Therapy
Family counseling for communication, parenting and conflict resolution.
Child Psychology
Child and adolescent therapy with parent guidance.
Online Therapy
Secure online therapy sessions from anywhere.
Corporate Mental Health Workshops
Workplace wellbeing programs for organisations.
Career Counseling
Support for career transitions and workplace stress.
Key Benefits
- Two of the most researched couples therapy methods
- Practical tools you can use the same week
- Addresses both communication skills and emotional distance
- Joint sessions led by qualified psychologists
- In-person in Islamabad or online worldwide
- Confidential, neutral and non-judgemental
- Evening and weekend appointments
Frequently Asked Questions
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