Selective Mutism in Children: Gentle Therapy and Parent Guidance
Some children talk freely at home but fall silent at school, with relatives or in public. This is not shyness or stubbornness. Selective mutism is an anxiety-related difficulty in which speaking feels impossible in certain places. The Meeting Matters offers child psychology for selective mutism, online and in Islamabad, with parent guidance and a plan for school.
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What Selective Mutism Looks Like
A child may speak normally at home but not at school, may whisper or point, freeze when asked a question, or avoid eye contact in unfamiliar places. It often shows up when a child starts school. The child wants to speak but cannot. Pressure to talk usually makes it worse.
Why It Happens
Selective mutism is linked to anxiety, and many children are naturally sensitive or slow to warm up. Some also have language or hearing difficulties, which is why a careful assessment matters. It is not caused by parenting, and it is not a choice.
How Therapy Helps
Treatment focuses on lowering anxiety and building comfort in small steps, without forcing speech. Sessions start with the child feeling safe, then gradually move through non-verbal communication, whispering, and speaking, in situations that feel manageable. Parents and teachers are part of the plan. For younger children we use play-based methods.
Working With the School
The school plays a big part. We help you explain the difficulty to teachers, agree on low-pressure ways for your child to take part, and avoid well-meant pressure to speak. A consistent approach between home and school speeds progress.
When to Get an Assessment
If your child has been silent in specific settings for more than a month, and it is affecting school or friendships, an assessment is worthwhile. A psychologist can look at anxiety, development and communication. See our page on psychological assessment.
Online or in Islamabad
Many children find it easier to start online from the safety of home. Sessions are held by secure video or in person at our F-11/1 clinic in Islamabad, in English, Urdu or Punjabi. Sessions start from PKR 5,000.
Meet Therapists Who Can Help
Muhammad Naushad Anjum
Founder & Lead Psychologist — Couples, Marriage & Relationship Counselling
Lamiah Munaf
Teenage Counselor & Educational Remedial Therapist
Kainat Ali
Clinical Psychologist — Anxiety, Panic Disorder & BPD
What Our Clients Say
“I had a really great experience at Meeting Matters Clinic in F-11. The therapists here are highly professional aur unka ravaiya bohat supportive hai. It’s not easy to find a safe space for mental health, but yahan ka mahol bohat pur-sakoon aur welcoming hai. They genuinely listen to your problems without any judgment. Highly recommended for anyone looking for good counseling in Islamabad.”
Subhan A. · Google Review
“I am truly grateful to Ms. Tasmiya Asghar and the team at Meeting Matters. I reached out during one of the most difficult periods of my life while dealing with grief and trying to be the best parent I could be for my children. Ms. Tasmiya's kindness, empathy, and guidance helped me navigate emotions that often felt overwhelming. She helped me understand my feelings, regain perspective, and think through practical ways of supporting my children and myself. I always felt respected, heard, and comfortable during our sessions. I would wholeheartedly recommend Ms. Tasmiya Asghar and Meeting Matters to anyone going through a challenging time and looking for professional support in a compassionate environment.”
Hashir K. · Google Review
“Have noticed alot of changes within myself because of the sessions I've had. My therapist is extremely kind and helpful. I've never once felt uncomfortable feeling like I'm talking to a stranger. My Dr has made me feel as if she's my own and has helped me a lot.”
Shagufta K. · Google Review
15+ Years of Experience You Can Trust
The Meeting Matters has been providing professional counseling, therapy and training since 2010 — over fifteen years of clinical experience supporting individuals, couples and families across Pakistan and around the world. Our psychologists are trained in evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, EMDR and psychodynamic therapy, delivered through confidential online counseling and online therapy as well as in-person sessions at our Islamabad clinic.
Explore Our Full Range of Services
Alongside specialist support for this concern, you have access to our full range of services — the same experienced team, available online or in person:
Individual Therapy
One-to-one online counseling and therapy for anxiety, depression, stress and personal growth.
Couples Counseling
Online relationship counseling for communication, conflict and rebuilding trust.
Marriage Counseling
Online marriage counseling for couples working through distress or disconnection.
Premarital Counseling
Guided conversations before marriage, available online.
Family Therapy
Family counseling for communication, parenting and conflict resolution.
Child Psychology
Child and adolescent therapy with parent guidance.
Online Therapy
Secure online therapy sessions from anywhere.
Corporate Mental Health Workshops
Workplace wellbeing programs for organisations.
Career Counseling
Support for career transitions and workplace stress.
Key Benefits
- Gentle, step-by-step approach with no pressure to speak
- Parent and school guidance
- Assessment of anxiety and communication
- Play-based work for younger children
- Online from home or in Islamabad
- Confidential and child-friendly
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