Loneliness Counselling

Loneliness is not the same as being alone. You can feel deeply lonely in a crowded family home, a marriage or a workplace. It is a common experience, and it is also a signal worth listening to. The Meeting Matters offers counselling for loneliness and isolation in Islamabad and online across Pakistan, including for Pakistanis living abroad.

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What Loneliness Feels Like

A sense of being unseen, of having no one to talk to honestly, of pretending to be fine, or of not belonging anywhere. Some people feel it after moving cities or countries, after a breakup or loss, in a marriage that has gone quiet, or when social anxiety makes people hard to approach.

Common Causes

Moving away from family, studying or working abroad, divorce or separation, bereavement, long hours or remote work, social anxiety, low self-esteem, a difficult family environment, and past experiences that made it hard to trust others. Loneliness also often goes alongside depression and anxiety, each making the other worse.

How Counselling Helps

Therapy gives you a steady space to be honest, which is a relief in itself. Together you work out what is behind the isolation, address thoughts such as "no one would care" that keep you from reaching out, build social confidence step by step, and strengthen the relationships you already have.

For Those Living Abroad

Many Pakistanis abroad feel cut off from family, language and community. We offer online sessions in English, Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi so you can talk in the language you think in.

When to Seek Help

If loneliness has lasted weeks or months, is affecting your sleep, mood or motivation, or you find yourself withdrawing more, it is worth speaking to someone. If you ever feel unsafe, contact emergency services or a helpline right away.

Symptoms, Self-Checks and Guides

See also loneliness: why you feel alone and how to cope.

Meet Therapists Who Can Help

Muhammad Naushad Anjum

Muhammad Naushad Anjum

Founder & Lead Psychologist (HCPC Registered) — Couples, Marriage & Relationship Counselling

CBTDBTCouples
Lamiah Munaf

Lamiah Munaf

Teenage Counselor & Educational Remedial Therapist

Self-Esteem & Confidence BuildingPeer Pressure & Healthy Decision-MakingBehavioral Modification
Kainat Ali

Kainat Ali

Clinical Psychologist — Anxiety, Panic Disorder & BPD

AnxietyDepressionBorderline Personality Disorder

What Our Clients Say

“I had a really great experience at Meeting Matters Clinic in F-11. The therapists here are highly professional aur unka ravaiya bohat supportive hai. It’s not easy to find a safe space for mental health, but yahan ka mahol bohat pur-sakoon aur welcoming hai. They genuinely listen to your problems without any judgment. Highly recommended for anyone looking for good counseling in Islamabad.”

Subhan A. · Google Review

“I am truly grateful to Ms. Tasmiya Asghar and the team at Meeting Matters. I reached out during one of the most difficult periods of my life while dealing with grief and trying to be the best parent I could be for my children. Ms. Tasmiya's kindness, empathy, and guidance helped me navigate emotions that often felt overwhelming. She helped me understand my feelings, regain perspective, and think through practical ways of supporting my children and myself. I always felt respected, heard, and comfortable during our sessions. I would wholeheartedly recommend Ms. Tasmiya Asghar and Meeting Matters to anyone going through a challenging time and looking for professional support in a compassionate environment.”

Hashir K. · Google Review

“Have noticed alot of changes within myself because of the sessions I've had. My therapist is extremely kind and helpful. I've never once felt uncomfortable feeling like I'm talking to a stranger. My Dr has made me feel as if she's my own and has helped me a lot.”

Shagufta K. · Google Review

15+ Years of Experience You Can Trust

The Meeting Matters has been providing professional counseling, therapy and training since 2010 — over fifteen years of clinical experience supporting individuals, couples and families across Pakistan and around the world. Our psychologists are trained in evidence-based approaches including CBT, DBT, EMDR and psychodynamic therapy, delivered through confidential online counseling and online therapy as well as in-person sessions at our Islamabad clinic.

Key Benefits

  • A steady, judgement-free space to talk honestly
  • Tackles the thoughts that keep you isolated
  • Builds social confidence at a pace that suits you
  • Support for people who have moved or live abroad
  • Sessions in English, Urdu, Hindi and Punjabi
  • In-person in Islamabad or online

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